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When
someone passes, flowers and
plants comfort us and speak to
us in a way that nothing else can. If you have ever been to
a service, or a business meeting, trade show, or home, where
there were no flowers or plants, you know that their absence
leaves the room stark and less comforting. Sending flowers
to a funeral service or to the family at home says that you,
too, feel the loss. Living plants and
flowers affirm the
beauty in life, for those still living and for the beauty in
the life of those departed.
There are several ways flowers and plants can be used at the
time of loss of a loved one. The family usually provides a
casket spray, sometimes with a printed ribbon banner.
At the visitation or service, there are four basic ways of
expressing sympathy. First, plants,
dish gardens, or
blooming plants, or else
floral arrangements in vases,
baskets, or ceramic vases, can be provided, and will usually
be taken home by a family member for a longer remembrance.
Second, sympathy arrangements of live flowers can be placed
by the funeral director either on the floor or on a
pedestal. Third, standing sprays on tripod easels can be
placed around the room. Fourth, hearts,
crosses, and
wreaths of flowers or
artificial flowers on a tripod easel
can add a special meaning to the floral tribute. Printed
ribbon banners can also be added to these.
For that special moment at the graveside service, flowers
(such as a single red rose) can be carried by family
members, to be dropped on the casket as a parting gesture.
These can be provided by the family or a caring friend.
Sending flowers to the home after the service, when the
service flowers have started to wilt and the memory is still
fresh, can be especially welcome as a way of saying that
you, too, remember. Plants,
blooming plants,
dish gardens,
and floral arrangements in vases, baskets, or ceramic vases,
are all appreciated at this time.
Floral remembrances can be sent to the gravesite
or mausoleum in several forms. These include live floral
cemetery bouquets,
artificial floral bouquets and
wreaths,
and custom bouquets for that extra touch. The Cherry
Blossom Florist delivers floral remembrances at the end of
the week at a special reduced delivery cost, any other
weekday at a low delivery cost, and will pre-book with you
for up to a year for your special days. |